Strap On Dildo

A strap on dildo is a sex toy that consists of a dildo (a phallic-shaped object used for penetration) attached to a harness, which is worn around the waist or hips. It allows the person wearing it to engage in penetrative sex with a partner, regardless of the wearer’s biological sex or gender. The harness holds the dildo securely in place, so the wearer can move freely while using it.

Key Components:

Dildo: The actual penetration part, usually made from body-safe materials like silicone or rubber, and comes in various sizes, shapes, and textures.
Harness: A strap or belt system that holds the dildo securely against the wearer’s body. The harness can be adjustable and fits around the waist and/or thighs to stay in place during use.

Uses:

Mutual Pleasure: Strap-on dildos are used for mutual pleasure in various types of sexual encounters, such as vaginal, anal, or even for exploring power dynamics in BDSM scenarios.
Gender Exploration: They can be used by individuals of any gender or sexual orientation to explore different forms of intimacy.
Penetration: They provide a way for people who do not have a penis to engage in penetrative sex.

Materials:

Strap-on dildos come in a variety of materials, the most common being silicone, as it is body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. Other materials include rubber or ABS plastic, which are also common but might require more care when cleaning and maintaining hygiene.

The choice of dildo size, shape, and material depends on personal preferences and comfort levels. The harness itself can be adjustable to ensure a secure fit for the wearer.

Using a strap-on dildo involves a few steps to ensure comfort, safety, and pleasure for both partners. Here’s a guide on how to use one:

1. Choose the Right Strap-On & Harness

Select a comfortable harness that fits securely around your waist and thighs. Adjustable straps help with fit.
Choose a dildo that is the right size, shape, and material for both partners. Beginners may want to start with a smaller, softer one.

2. Wear the Harness Properly

Put on the harness like underwear or a belt system, adjusting the straps to fit snugly.
Insert the dildo into the O-ring (or attachment system) on the harness. Some harnesses allow interchangeable dildos.

3. Use Lubrication

Always apply a water-based or silicone-based lube to the dildo for smoother penetration.

4. Get Comfortable with It

Before using it with a partner, practice wearing the harness and moving with it to get used to the weight and feel.
Some people like to practice thrusting movements against a pillow to improve control.

5. Start Slowly with Your Partner

Begin with foreplay to ensure both partners are relaxed and aroused.
Let the receiving partner communicate what feels good.
Start with slow, gentle penetration, gradually increasing intensity as comfort allows.

6. Experiment with Positions

Try positions like missionary, doggy style, or straddling to see what feels best.

7. Clean Up After Use

Wash the dildo with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner to keep it hygienic.
If the dildo is made of porous material, consider using condoms over it, especially if sharing.